So we're going to keep this section quite hands on which means I'm really hoping that you're going to
go through an experience for yourself.
All the exercises and the practices they're going to be introducing you to so that you understand the
value in them and you off sharing them with other people.
The clients you go on to coach know this video.
I'm going to put a bit of a funny spin on this one.
This is all to do with establishing a greatest life vision.
This is all about perspective because sometimes in life people get so caught in the small.
And if you think about it when we get caught up in the small and the details it can feel schorsch dreadful
for me.
I can feel like I'm getting short get quite claustrophobic.
No that's just me.
I'm not saying there's going to be like that for everyone but it is like now for a lot of people.
So in order to get out of the small sometimes all we really need to do is just lift our heads up and
look at the bag because sometimes people cannot see the woods for the trees where they're so busy caught
on about their routine mundane tasks to dos off their death day life that they don't surely stop for
long enough to actually check and see where they're actually going in the direction that they want to
be going in life of when this happens some people can end up going round and round in circles for eight
years sometimes for a lifetime feeling like they're getting blown around like a leaf in the wind.
Other friends of other people saying yes to things that they don't want to see to and know things that
they actually really do want to say yes to and and end up living quite incongruent life.
So in order to establish a greatest life vision for our future Um I'm going to put a bit of an abstract
spin on this.
All right.
Would you expect anything less from me and what I have come to recognize is that.
In the context of my own life.
Being successful isn't to me to determine.
Right.
No.
Yes I have achieved some goals in my past and most likely will achieve their goals in the future but
in order to live a successful life I don't like to define success by financial or by materialistic things.
Success from me is more relational.
Alright are you all Luke or whether my advice is make the positive impact in the lives of other people
or whether it's not.
I'm always looking at a legacy or Aim For me success is completely interconnected and ties in with legacy
are my leaving something meaningful behind.
There's going to outlive me.
I creating something today that if I was to die tomorrow other people could still benefit from.
If the answer is yes I feel four fold.
I feel like I'm moving forward and making progress.
When the answer is no.
If I've been focussed on small irrelevant things just laziness for the sake of business that generally
get frustrated.
So in order to maintain perspective on my a wall or hallmark of any for a paper with this varied diagram
on it and this is virtually a tombstone though this is going to seem quite crazy but what I am going
to do for you right now is I'm going to share with you the personal mission statement that I have for
my life.
I know this is my perspective.
You don't have to take it.
You can accept or reject it love hate a law that is just mine.
All right.
You don't have to take this on board or agree with that but it does serve me and it does serve other
people or I saw this vision statement that I half of my life.
I'm sure it allows me to be successful every single day because just before I share this with you.
I'd like to just help you recognize and see something that you most likely already see.
And this is that most people sign success to stuff we've already discussed as we've already mentioned.
So this isn't anything new.
The world is quite a superficial place.
As in it is quite a greedy place is money hungry where men women will focus on making money the whole
lives.
For example my dad.
I think I mentioned this earlier in the course when I was growing up I never saw him.
Sometimes have not had not seen for four weeks on end.
He'd work away from home selling horticultural goods selling grass seeds and garden equipment to garden
centres.
No my dad's prospective was you know it's a man's role to provide for his family but that came at the
cost of the time that he would otherwise spend with his family.
And at this stage we were out in life we were not close.
We don't have a relationship.
So has my father been successful in life.
I would say no because he sacrificed a quality of the relationships that he had with his family members
from making money.
And this is a common mistake that I see many people make in life.
Many people come to me who are what society would deem as being successful but yet they don't feel successful
because they're not for Felt.
What I find is that people want to molinos people with millions and millions of pounds are bother's
in the bank.
Yet living completely empty and unfold life's not four fold not content not at peace.
They don't know what to do next.
Made all the money and the money hasn't served them.
Yeah and the other side of the fence of work with people who were absolutely Brooke who are striving
to make money want to have recognized again through my life is that you know at the times of my past
whether I've had much or whether I've hired little I haven't changed.
The only thing that's really changed has been my perspective my focus and my drive.
I've never found fulfilment through making more money sometimes.
I've been happy when I've presented with a whopping paycheque or someone buys a big book of courses
and I make a five hundred or a thousand bucks overnight or something like that when I'm sleeping.
I think that's fantastic.
Yay.
But the novelty wears off very very quickly because that's just the very nature of money by materialistic
things.
Saw long winded introduction over let me get on now to share with you how it is that I personally defined
success because how he defined success for me is completely subjective was my prerogative.
But this also comes my greatest life vision.
My personal mission statement.
So all three marriages to one how they define success.
My personal vision statement and the greatest life vision.
Well I'm all the same for saying so.
How I see success going for me is how other people are going to remember me once I'm gone because how
well if my life today is going to determine whether this ultimately happens or not because how other
people remember me once I'm gone isn't for me to determine.
It's up to them.
The children don't yet have the friends that are half family members the people that I interact with
on a day to day basis.
How you watch it is course right no.
If you find me relatively interesting or likeable in some way then you may remember me for a few years.
Or you may come and see me do an event at some point but what I'm saying here is that if you even just
take one lesson one principle from this course and share it with someone else that I've been successful
or because my greatest life vision is that's how I want to be remembered.
Ken Ramsay.
I want to be remembered as a loving husband.
Father
Grandfather.
Armed friend.
Made a positive.
Reference.
To their lives.
Or.
The doors.
Who.
Got.
No I'm.
No.
I appreciate this definition of success isn't cultural.
Granted I accept that but it does determine how I'll live my life today.
Every single day.
If you look at me being successful in life is not determined by what I get or by what I do.
Me in a successful life is determined by who I'm willing to become who I'm willing to be today for me
my greatest life vision is how I'm remembered by other people because is them and them alone who are
going to determine whether I've lived a life that I actually meant something to them or not.
No I don't know if you've had personal success or greatest life vision presented to you in this way
before.
You know try to get stressed about making more money or a big business or doing more staff or for felling
your to do list in light and in consideration of.
HOUSE No what I'm going to urge you to do now for your own personal experience.
I don't know how established you are in life.
We are about in the world you're watching me from right now but in the additional material section of
this you will lecture as a or two page workbook that actually just hires a tombstone written on it or
drawn on it.
Like I like this are going to ask you to do is spend five to 10 minutes to write down a vision statement
for your life that describes how it is that you would like other people to remember you once you've
gone.
Because if you do this and if you do this honestly compassionately that it is going to drive undetermined
everything that you see yes to everything you say no to the goals that you pursue and the goals that
you born for pretty much the rest of your life.
So this is the ultimate perspective for effect of goal setting.
It's the reason why anyone would ultimately go want to commit their time to doing anything or pursuing
any goal in life.
So I strongly urge him to print off the workshy and work through this exercise and then in the next
video and when I look forward to.
Senior American beldon unpack all of this and a little bit more detail.